8 Outfits to Wear on a First Date

What to wear on first dates: eight outfit ideas

There’s nothing like the thrill of first-date butterflies, and when you want to make that all-important first impression your outfit is key. It’s a lot to think about, but don’t worry, we have plenty of ideas for what to wear on a first date. 

What does the data say you should wear?

Do you have a “lucky outfit?” Many of us do, and it all comes down to the science of attraction.

Wear red and black

Color psychologists are unanimous – if you want to make a great impression, wear red or black. Red makes you appear more attractive to your date, while black makes you look fashionable and confident.

Boost height – and confidence – in heels

There’s a lot of psychology behind wearing heels. They give your confidence a lift along with your height. Height is associated with power and authority, in men and women alike.

Stick to a natural makeup look

A 2011 Procter & Gamble study found that heavy makeup can create a negative first impression, so steer clear of smoky eyes and hot pink lipstick on the first date.

Wear a signature scent

Research shows you only have 27 seconds to make that all-important first impression, with 85% of survey participants stating that smell played a big part. See our other post for some first-date fragrance ideas.

What to wear on a casual first date

Casual first dates give a chance to get to know each other over a cup of coffee before you commit to a full dinner.

1. Jeans, tee, and blazer

The beauty of this first-date basic is that it works for men and women. It sends the signal that you’re not too stuffy thanks to the jeans and T-shirt, but the blazer still lends a touch of polish. A plain white tee and dark denim wash are always a winning combo.

2. A-line skirt and cashmere sweater

A preppy A-line or pleated skirt and soft-touch sweater looks effortless and comfy. It’s a versatile enough look that you can wear your choice of prim ballet flats, chunky boots, or sporty sneakers to add your own personality.

What to wear on a dinner first date

Dinner dates call for a little extra effort. If you’re headed somewhere swanky, keep the dress code in mind.

1. A strappy jumpsuit and boots

The beauty of a one-piece outfit is that it takes the pressure off. All you need to think about in terms of styling are your accessories, and women’s jumpsuits can adapt to many dress codes. Add ankle boots for a sleek finish.

2. Satin midi dress with gold accessories

A slinky midi dress made from satin or silk brings a little classic glamor and sophistication to any first date, and it lends itself well to after-dinner drinks. For bonus points, choose a red one! Layer gold jewelry to accessorize if you go for a warm-toned dress.

What to wear on a first date in the summer

Outdoor concerts, picnics, barbecues… summer’s a great time for active, exciting first dates.

1. Sundress and statement sunglasses

Go for a floaty, lightweight cotton sundress in a mini or midi length and pop on a pair of aviator shades to keep an air of mystery. Gladiator sandals or cowboy boots add a fun touch to this outfit.

2. Linen shirt and wide-leg pants

Linen is a fabric of choice for summery styles, for men and women. Choose a breezy linen shirt or blouse and pair it with wide-leg pants. Women can show off their summer tan in a pair of shorts – an oversized linen shirt looks fresh and modern with bike shorts and chunky trainers.

What to wear on a first date in the winter

You’ll feel cozy by a roaring fire in the winter with these first date outfits:

1. Blouse and leather pants

A sheer blouse brings a little romance to a pair of sophisticated leather pants. Top it off with a smart camel coat if you’ll be spending time outdoors.

2. Knit midi skirt with knee-high boots and a sweater

For the ultimate in cozy comfort, choose a sleek knit midi skirt that hits below the knee and pair it with knee-high boots for contrast. If your skirt is high-waisted, add a cropped sweater for the most flattering proportion.

Ultimately, you should wear what makes you feel great, whether it’s jeans and a T-shirt or a bodycon dress. When you’re feeling your best, that confidence will show, and you’ll look your best too!